Role Play: Dominance and Submission

 

    Model: Deanna Dagang

    Photography by: Jaynard  Alpuerto

In Other Countries, they are still practicing these Principles
Role Play: Dominance and Submission are not to be confused with Sadomasochism. To make this more clear, I am including these basic definition.

Bondage - 2. A state of subjection to a force, power or influence. It comes from the Old English word bonda, which means husbandman (farmer)

Dominant - 1. Exercising the most influence or control; governing. 2. Most prominent in position or prevalence; ascendant. Comes from Old French and Latin dominans, to dominate.
Dominate - 1. To control, govern or rule by superior authority or power. Comes from Latin dominari, to rule > dominus, lord.

Submissive - comes from Submit.
Submit - 1. To yield or surrender (oneself) to the will or authority of another. 2. To subject to a condition or process. 1. To yield to the opinion or authority of another; give in. 2. To allow oneself to be subjected; acquiesce. Comes from Middle English submitten > Latin submittere, to set under: sub-under + mittere-to cause to go.

Sadism - 1. The perversion of deriving sexual satisfaction from the infliction of pain on others. 2. Delight in cruelty. 3. Extreme cruelty. Comes from Comte Donatien de Sade (1740-1814)

Masochism - 1. An abnormal condition in which sexual excitement and satisfaction depend largely on being subjected to abuse or physical pain, whether by oneself or another. Comes from Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Austrian novelist (1836-1895)

Sadomasochism - 1. The perversion of taking pleasure, especially sexual gratification from simultaneous sadism and masochism.

If you ignore the terms "perversion", and "abnormal" in the above definitions, you can still see that nowhere in the definition of dominate or submit do you have pain as an integral part. It is a difference in gradients and intent. I am not saying that S&M is wrong, bad or undesirable. It is just a much higher gradient than D/S, and may be too intense for the beginner. Some people may confuse heavy D/S with S&M. They are two very different ways. 

   Photography by: Jaynard  Alpuerto

  
"My suffering becomes unprotected and helpless slave at the same time arouse the conscience of much more pain derived from fear of Punishment."
- Deanna Dagang

Trivia:

Oneirogmophobia

(Fear of wet dreams)

This Oneirogmophobia have very strong religious backgrounds and were taught that having sexual desires and sexual urges is wrong and you are committing sin by having these sexual urges. For others, having wet dreams when they dream about. Can be emotionally upsetting especially if they are not informed that this can happen. They may feel guilty and ashamed and thing that it is wrong to have wet dreams.

To avoid it. Proper sexual education through counseling and psychotherapy.

Eurotophobia

(Fear of female genitalia)

 

Fear for the female genitalia for the reason that they are unfamiliar with it and because of the lack of understanding of the female genitalia.

Other women who fear for their own sexual purity may also resort to Self-Injury Disorder.

Treatment includes behavioral therapy. Proper education that sex is not bad and that mutilation of the female genitalia can be life-threatening is important to save women’s lives.

 

   Who discovered sperm cells? 

That would be   Antony van Leeuwenhoek (1632-1723) The amateur Dutch scientist and prolific lensmaker first observed sperm cells in 1677. Whose sperm was it? His own. Van Leeuwenhoek was also the first to observe bacteria, muscle fibers, and the flow of blood cells through capillaries. No wonder he's been called the "father of microbiology."